Opening my Facebook account is becoming confusing most of the time..
When I created my account last year and added my friends from school, colleagues from work (previous and present) i have always been amazed of how history unfolds before my eyes...
There has been a "trending " stages in Facebook picture post..
First, is the "wedding gown series", next will be the "ultrasound-result-theme" and recently, the "nursery-updates". when you can witness first-hand, how their cute infants turns to adorable toddlers and gradually... to the first graders.. and so on...
Although I'm still enjoying the quiet life of what other may call "blessed-singleness".... I still cant help but wonder how it feels to become a Mom. I know that it is going to be waaaay to far beyond still, but in my heart I know I will one day become a MOM... :-)
so to my friends who are already one, I know raising a Kid is never a walk in the park and a continues learning experience as well. Let me share with you this interesting reads... and im sure it could teach us a thing or two on how to deal with the little ones or even the "once-he/she -was just-a -little-one".
A NOTE FROM A CHILD
1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you.
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
8. Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.
